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    Senior Member
    Posts: 355
    Joined: Sun Apr 08, 2018 11:05 pm

    Re: Success Stories

    Sun Feb 03, 2019 10:27 am

    Scott1 wrote:
    Fri Jan 22, 2016 6:44 pm
    Just dropping in with the quick version - I'm almost two years pokie-free now after they almost ruined me. I received invaluable help from a local organisation (NSW Far North Coast) which helped retrain my brain - it helped me to think differently about pokie machines and gambling in general. I still gamble on occasion, but aside from two large-ish relapses involving roulette and sports betting, I've been very well behaved these past two years. These days, if and when I gamble, I feel like a true recreational gambler as opposed to a compulsive/degenerate one - I'm now throwing $10 on Keno once every few weeks, instead of punting away my paycheck every week on the machines. The biggest difference I notice now is my mentality - I don't give a **** if my $10 yields nothing, nor do I have any compulsion to persevere with my numbers and chase the $10 I've lost - half the time I don't even care enough to check my ticket before leaving! My biggest issue in the past was being unable to quit - even when I was winning. Doesn't matter how strong your addiction is - nobody is born a problem gambler - you learned that behavior, and it can be unlearned too.

    I'm not a high earner, but I managed to repay almost $20k worth of gambling related debt within 15 months, finishing last September. Days one and two of my 100 day challenge I physically broke down into tears upon reflection of what I'd been doing to myself, and the anxiety of facing that mountain of debt was crippling. I started with $25 a week until I'd rebuilt a small savings fund for life expenses, and from there I started repaying larger amounts as I could afford it. I'm proof that it doesn't matter how deep the hole gets - the first step doesn't have to be a big one, just as long as you take it.
    Hey Scott,
    Thanks for posting. Great story of recovery there. And that's the thing some people can live life as a recreational gambler after being a compulsive (degenerate) as you say gambler 😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh because you hit the nail on the head, that's how it feels.

    I don't think I could ever be a recreational gambler apart from a lotto $5 lotto ticket which I don't even class as recreation gambling tbh.

    Also agree we are not born gamblers and we learn the behaviour (that being said I think some people have a greater chance of developing addictions due to genetics, I 100% believe some addiction personality traits are in the Gene's.)

    But yes its unlearning it.
    And that's was so scary about today, the smartphones and kids, we are allowing them (yes I am guilty, but trying to reign it back due to this) and video games are triggering something in the brain, and kids are becoming completely addicted to these devices.

    Well done to you for going so well. Great example of slow and steady will get you there, how you paid off your debt and started saving just $25 a week to start , at the begining it would seem and people would think that's going to take forever to get any savings, it may start slow but the growth will soon follow.
    My hole like yours was pretty deep over a year ago and I saw no way out, but like you say slow and steady gets you there.

    Thank you for your post as I say to others these posts of success make me realize there is a great life after a degenerate gambling addiction, something that sometimes is very hard to imagine when quitting or starting again after lapsing.

    Keep it up, all the best.
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    dragon007 (facilitator)
    Senior Member
    Posts: 191
    Joined: Sun Mar 18, 2018 11:07 am

    Re: Success Stories

    Sun Feb 03, 2019 1:35 pm

    Hey @Scott1

    Well done, you are showing a lot of insight and control.

    All the best.
    dragon007
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    pamela
    Senior Member
    Posts: 1762
    Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2014 9:38 pm

    Re: Success Stories

    Mon Nov 04, 2019 9:49 am

    Well done ..a great story
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    FamilyFirst
    Senior Member
    Posts: 188
    Joined: Fri Mar 17, 2017 7:38 pm

    Re: Success Stories

    Thu Feb 20, 2020 9:55 pm

    Hi All,
    been a while since I've visited but pleased to say I'm still not gambling.
    Today I celebrate 3 years since my last poke.
    Life is great once your away from that crap, I rarely think of the things anymore.
    All debt has been removed now and we have been able to go away on holidays several times a year. We have two new cars and money in the bank, none of which would of happened if I'd continued gambling...
    The biggest motivation for me was keeping my family, I desperately wanted to stop. So I stopped! Easy.. Hard at first but once I was a couple months in it became easier and easier. With strict control and access to cash* I was unable to act on my urges anyway.
    It can be overcome people, YOU just have to WANT to stop.

    Cheers,
    Lee
    3 years Gamble Free



    * I still have strict access to money, and provide my wife with receipts for all purchases I make.
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    pamela
    Senior Member
    Posts: 1762
    Joined: Sun Jun 29, 2014 9:38 pm

    Re: Success Stories

    Sat Feb 22, 2020 12:54 pm

    Thats fantastic..3 years gamble free..well done and keep enjoying your family..and all the benefits of being gamble free
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    Ila123
    Member
    Posts: 30
    Joined: Fri Dec 07, 2018 11:50 am

    Re: Success Stories

    Sat Feb 22, 2020 8:09 pm

    Hi @FamilyFirst

    I'm glad you have come on the forums and told us about your progress and very welldone on your 3rd year gambling free.
    Like you have said, it's hard working and requires a lot of commitment and motivation.

    Keep post,
    your support is very much important here.

    Blippi
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