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Ex controlling money issues

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2019 5:19 am
by ANONFLOWER
Hi i am friends with an ex
He seems to think he can get involved in my finances. and ask me if i have been gambling
how much

i dont know how to keep this friendship
i have no close friends right now.

Re: Ex controlling money issues

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2019 8:31 pm
by pamela
Hi..perhaps he is just trying to reach out to help you

Re: Ex controlling money issues

Posted: Tue Apr 30, 2019 4:33 pm
by BrittV (facilitator)
Hi @ANONFLOWER I agree with Pamela, it may be confronting but it does sound like this person is trying to be a good friend.

How are you going this week?

Re: Ex controlling money issues

Posted: Mon May 20, 2019 9:24 pm
by ANONFLOWER
not good.

yeh i dont trust that kind of friend who has naricssitc personality disorder.

Re: Ex controlling money issues

Posted: Wed May 29, 2019 12:48 pm
by ICU
I would suggest that you take some time to reflect on things that you enjoyed before you started to gamble. Make a list.

Think of things that you haven't done but would like to try.

Most areas have interest groups where people with similar interests can meet, community groups canalso be useful in this scenario.

This gives you an oppertunity to meet people with similar interests to you, and possible development of new friendships.

Good luck