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  • This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    For those taking the 100 Day Challenge. Share your journey, seek support and track your progress here!
    Lovely Cat Lady
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    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Tue Jul 13, 2021 4:54 pm

    Hi @Anita44

    Glad you had a sunny day, getting vitamin D makes such a big difference. :D
    Awesome, house renovations have begun. How exciting! :cool:
    Good find! Nothing like a beautiful leather handbag, especially if it's on special. ;);

    Indeed, a very successful day for you today.

    Day 66!!! :); :); :);
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    Anita44
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    Posts: 363
    Joined: Sat May 08, 2021 9:30 pm

    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Wed Jul 14, 2021 3:45 pm

    Day 67 hi lovely cat lady & hi everyone

    Not so busy today , but I am happy been shop again before work, I think I am shopping addicted now, but I buy them all on special and I make sure I paid all my bill first so I think not too bad.
    I am telling my sister that I am done with shopping now, but still shop for her n me lol.
    Before I never have money buy nice thing for myself, it's change since I quit gamble.
    Life much more happier and no stress at all now.
    I am able to buy what I want to buy from department store and luxury handbag store, such a good feeling.
    Able to eat nice food at a nice restaurants without worried I don't have money to paid them.
    Most of all my family are very happy & proud of me, and of course I am extremely proud of myself too.
    That I am able to STOP GAMBLE for good.
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    Lovely Cat Lady
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    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Wed Jul 14, 2021 3:51 pm

    Hi @Anita44,

    How are you? How are the home renovations going?

    It really puts a smile in my face to read how happy you are and how much you're enjoying this new normal gamble free life. What a wonderful feeling to be able to pay your bills on time and also shop and eat out without having to worry about $$$. So amazing you have so many supports around you: sister, partner, in laws, your parents... :D

    Day 67, congrats! Approaching three quarters of you 100 Day Challenge. Keep up the good work! :cool:
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    Anita44
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    Posts: 363
    Joined: Sat May 08, 2021 9:30 pm

    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Wed Jul 14, 2021 4:11 pm

    Hi lovely cat lady
    Thank you so much for you support & your compliments.
    My partner did fantastic job, the house it's cover full of dust haha.
    He start sand all the wall and ceiling, should be finishing tomorrow night.
    Saturday my day off, I will be join him washing the wall down with sugar soap and clean up all the dust from drop sheet than he can start painting.
    That not even his trade haha, but he did fantastic job painting all the room one year ago.
    But once all this finish we get people in give us a price on carpet and vinyl for kitchen and lounge and hallways.
    I think should look amazing when all this finish.
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    Anita44
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    Posts: 363
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    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Thu Jul 15, 2021 12:46 pm

    Day 68 hi everyone

    Wake up this morning inside the house was cover with dust, I try to sweep of the dust as much as I can, than I am off to work.
    Cold & cloudy day today not that nice, I feel like stay home sleep in would be an ideal, but doesn't work that way in real life.
    Another easy day at work today, not that busy today.
    Got one of my customer he knew i like play pokies, but he have not come to my shop for last 3 month, he was here not long ago, the first thing he ask me, did I hit any jackpot, I said to him I don't gamble anymore, he was like oook.
    It's was a nice feeling able to tell people that I stop gamble anymore.
    I really enjoy my new normal gamble free life, as long as I make myself happy I dont think I will have any urge to gamble.
    That why it's very important to treat myself sometimes nice now & than. But lately I been treat myself all the time haha. Probably I stop gamble and I can afford than before.
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    Printemps
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    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Thu Jul 15, 2021 6:31 pm

    @Anita44 a cloudy day always makes me feel like I should just be snuggled up in bed!

    It must be a really empowering feeling being able to just say "I don't gamble anymore"!

    I hope work went well, how are you feeling as we get to the weekend?
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    Anita44
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    Posts: 363
    Joined: Sat May 08, 2021 9:30 pm

    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Thu Jul 15, 2021 10:45 pm

    Hi printemps
    How are you doing?
    Work was getting busy tonight I was so happy.
    I tell some of my customer they gamble at the same club, cos it's so close to my Work place, and I said to them I just get to the stage I can't control myself anymore.
    This weekend gonna be very busy as my partner renovating our house, I will be hand on cleaning all the dust from the wall n ceiling than he will start painting this Sunday on, this is his first week.
    Still got 2 more weeks to go, I think he will finish before 3 weeks than will give him a few day break before going back to work would be nice.
    I will get him 1box of beer tomorrow after work, that will be his reward .
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    Anita44
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    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Fri Jul 16, 2021 1:37 pm

    Day 69 lol ( just thinking of naughty thing that all)
    Hi everyone

    It's Friday yay, off tomorrow full day cleaning with my partner.
    I was sleep in this morning haha, but I still manage to drop kid of school on time, that was lucky.
    It's a wonderful feeling now, knowing that I wouldn't go behind my partner back to gamble.
    He have not ring check on me after work for last 6 weeks now, cos he knew I am not gamble anymore.
    I think it's very important to get my trust back from him.
    I am feeling over the moon right now.
    Thanks for all the support from this forums, you guy are amazing to me.
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    Calvin (facilitator)
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    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Fri Jul 16, 2021 1:59 pm

    Amazing work @Anita44 ! You've made so much progress! I'm glad to hear that things have improved! :D
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    Anita44
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    Posts: 363
    Joined: Sat May 08, 2021 9:30 pm

    Re: This is my 2nd day, try to get my life back again

    Fri Jul 16, 2021 5:09 pm

    Hi Calvin

    Thank you so much for your compliments.
    Hope you have a wonderful day:)
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