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  • Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    For those taking the 100 Day Challenge. Share your journey, seek support and track your progress here!
    Realme
    Member
    Posts: 42
    Joined: Sun Mar 26, 2017 12:48 pm

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Fri Feb 07, 2020 12:11 pm

    Hi Brisbane Lad,

    Congratulations on all your successes, I’ll be cheering you on to reach the big 100, you can definitely do this. I’ve read your story from beginning & I like your mindset, you’ve got what it takes to conquer this challenge.

    I’m at 58 days, no relapses which I’m happy about. I joined this community 4 years ago & caved in many times to pokies. Reading stories here had helped me & I knew that one day I’d get stronger in abstaining gambling. I left this community for a temporary time & was with another challenge group, but after months of writing & replying there I was starting to feel left out at times with the few very depressed who seemed to be more heard than I was, many would write to these few, so I started to feel isolated & that my long posts there were not replied to as much. I believe everyone is special & has problems going on in their life & deserves to be heard. Isolation is a horrible feeling so I resonate to your earlier posts you wrote about.

    Keep going strong, you’re doing great 🌟
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    BrisbaneLad
    Member
    Posts: 78
    Joined: Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:17 am

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Sat Feb 08, 2020 11:05 am

    Thanks so much @Realme , and for reading my journey so far. So lovely of you! Day 43 for me so I’m not too far behind you :)

    So sorry the other group didn’t support you! Be happy to support you through your journey.

    It’s been raining here for the last 3 days sitting having a coffee watching it and starting to rediscover the simple things ... how lovely.

    Have an amazing Saturday morning!!
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    BrisbaneLad
    Member
    Posts: 78
    Joined: Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:17 am

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Sun Feb 09, 2020 8:05 am

    Day 44 today and eyes set on 50! I feel so blessed that I literally have had no urges for the past 10 days. I know they will come again, but really using this time to build strength and resilience to deal with them when they do. Happy Sunday everyone :)
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    Springhope17
    Senior Member
    Posts: 234
    Joined: Fri Sep 08, 2017 10:16 pm

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Sun Feb 09, 2020 12:55 pm

    Thats so great about the urges!
    And think this time next week you will be 50 + days woohoo!
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    BrisbaneLad
    Member
    Posts: 78
    Joined: Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:17 am

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Mon Feb 10, 2020 6:01 am

    Yeeeeep it will @Springhope17 !! Bring it on! It’s Day 50 week!! Feeling strong and looking forward to smashing another week GF! Happy Monday :)
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    Realme
    Member
    Posts: 42
    Joined: Sun Mar 26, 2017 12:48 pm

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Mon Feb 10, 2020 11:46 pm

    You’re doing so well & so close to 50, not long now. Makes me happy that you’re not far behind me - we can walk the path together, keep strong my friend ;);
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    BrisbaneLad
    Member
    Posts: 78
    Joined: Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:17 am

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Fri Feb 14, 2020 3:44 am

    Day 49!!! Slowly getting there. Been absolutely smashed at work this week so it’s been easy to keep my mind on other things :)
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    Springhope17
    Senior Member
    Posts: 234
    Joined: Fri Sep 08, 2017 10:16 pm

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Fri Feb 14, 2020 6:43 am

    Great work! Tomorrow is 50 days for you! It really does help to be busy at work as i the days can just keep passing by! We can do this!
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    Realme
    Member
    Posts: 42
    Joined: Sun Mar 26, 2017 12:48 pm

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Fri Feb 14, 2020 10:21 pm

    I’ll be here to celebrate your 50 achievement, you’ve got this & can do it !!!
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    BrisbaneLad
    Member
    Posts: 78
    Joined: Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:17 am

    Re: Bring on 2020. Let’s do this

    Sat Feb 15, 2020 6:43 am

    Thanks @Realme and @Springhope17 !!!!

    Day 50 😁 🎉 half way to the first goal!!! Boom.. longest I’ve gone as long as I can remember!!
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