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    Mona58
    Senior Member
    Posts: 1057
    Joined: Sun Oct 15, 2017 12:44 pm

    Re: Support

    Mon Jan 08, 2018 9:36 am

    You CAN do it Matilda!

    perhaps subscribe to daily SMS support from GambHelp...? (its on the homepage of this site)
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    A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.~Confucius
    DFP
    Senior Member
    Posts: 182
    Joined: Mon Aug 28, 2017 9:56 am

    Re: Support

    Mon Jan 08, 2018 5:45 pm

    Are you able to move the money to a safe account straight away - one where you don't have instant access? Or give the money to someone who will help you be accountable? I feel that limiting access to cash is very important - especially at the start. Best wishes - you can do it!!!
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    puggles
    Junior Member
    Posts: 15
    Joined: Fri Dec 29, 2017 8:29 pm

    Re: Support

    Mon Jan 08, 2018 9:01 pm

    We are all cheering you on Matilda!

    Keep up the focus!! You can get through tomorrow
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    Matilda
    Junior Member
    Posts: 5
    Joined: Thu Jan 04, 2018 6:42 pm

    Re: Support

    Wed Jan 10, 2018 6:59 pm

    Well I fell down yesterday and gave in to an urge. Sadly I enjoyed my time. But far less money, no cards, short time. That is an improvement. I don't think I can go cold turkey...It is too hard. But I am on my way again. I guess there are some down times with all the good. .
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    Mona58
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    Joined: Sun Oct 15, 2017 12:44 pm

    Re: Support

    Wed Jan 10, 2018 7:27 pm

    It is hard Matilda.
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    A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.~Confucius
    Oregon
    Senior Member
    Posts: 122
    Joined: Thu Nov 30, 2017 2:08 pm

    Re: Support

    Wed Jan 10, 2018 10:03 pm

    Sorry to hear that Matilda
    If you can walk away with a small loss that is an improvement. But don't go back trying to chase your money. Otherwise it'll turn out just as bad.

    I've given up access to money when I know I'll have the time to gamble alone. It has worked wonders for me.
    But the one day I left my card in my wallet I was back in front of the machines again. Luckily I stopped myself just in time.

    It is hard work and there are down days, but they are nowhere near as bad as the days where you lost more than you could afford.
    Keep trying and looking to the webpage and forums for support.

    Oregon on day 42 GF
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