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Re: Day 0

Postby Tja12345 » Tue Dec 12, 2017 8:50 pm

This weekend I'm away. I will have my child with me.. That's a Sure way to stay away from the pokies.
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Re: Day 0

Postby Jerry (facilitator) » Tue Dec 12, 2017 11:36 am

So Taj,

What can you plan to keep you busy for this weekends urges? Maybe you could buy tickets to a movie, or make dinner reservations?

Book ahead.
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Re: Day 0

Postby DFP » Tue Dec 12, 2017 5:57 am

Hi tja
Well done on putting perspective on your recent gambling bust. It is a journey, an undulating journey - I've been on it for years. And for me it'll never end, as I will always need my strategies and barriers in place. Always a work in progress.

As you say, keep working on your triggers and strategies. Also on awakening to 'the real you', and what you really value and really enjoy doing with your time.

All the best, and keep posting.
Always a 'work in progress'
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Re: Day 0

Postby Tja12345 » Mon Dec 11, 2017 11:01 pm

So I got to Friday night and gave in.

It wasn't as bad as it could have been and rather than an entire weekend of gambling, it was one night.

I can see how and why this happened. Home alone, everybody away, pay week and a huge week at work. I just wanted to zone out and have some me time. I am going to have to find another 'me time' activity.

So I've restarted the clock, day 3.

I'm okay with myself, this is a journey.. If it was so easy to give up, I wouldn't be here.
I'm still figuring out my triggers and how to put into place strategies. I'll get there.. Eventually
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Re: Day 0

Postby Jerry (facilitator) » Mon Dec 04, 2017 2:23 pm

Hi Tja12345,

I think one tactic that is helpful for many people is to plan activities ahead of time. You know you are more tempted by gambling on Friday and Saturday nights. You don't need to wait till Friday to work out what you will do instead. You can plan ahead.

Have a think about different things you can do for your weekend and book them early. Maybe you could book a table at a restaurant, or buy tickets to a movie or show. Organizing this sort of stuff early not only help you to beat cravings, but gives you something to look forward to for the whole week.
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Re: Day 0

Postby Mona58 » Sat Dec 02, 2017 10:21 am

You will soon find enjoyment in what you do every day. Nothing now seems more boring than sitting in front of a D's machine mindlessly shoving money into its mouth and pressing its buttons!
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.~Confucius
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Re: Day 0

Postby Tja12345 » Sat Dec 02, 2017 9:48 am

I have some boring paperwork stuff to
do and Xmas lists to start writing,

I'll be sure to keep myself busy.
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Re: Day 0

Postby Mona58 » Sat Dec 02, 2017 8:37 am

A pjama day for me! Maybe bake a cake since the weather is cooler and try one of those unbaked slice recipes from the book I'd got from op-shop. l never looked at cookbooks in op-shop before and have collected a few.

Well done Tja! Stay strong!
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.~Confucius
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Re: Day 0

Postby Jeddie » Sat Dec 02, 2017 7:58 am

Well done, keep doing it. Fantastic. What plans do you have?


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IN GAMBLING THE MANY MUST LOSE IN ORDER THAT THE FEW MAY WIN
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Re: Day 0

Postby Tja12345 » Sat Dec 02, 2017 5:24 am

Friday night done.

Now there's Saturday ..,
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